I have had several friends who waited until their wedding night and been EXTREMELY nervous and disappointed. There are several things you should know before your first time as a woman.
1.The BIGGEST thing you need to remember is lubrication! i STRONGLY suggest the brand pink it has 3 healing agents in it that will help any tearing so that you are not too sore for round 2.
2. take it slow. It is not a race to the finish it is something that you have to be gentle with and work to make it special, it will not be the best sex of your life but try to make it romantic and gentle.
3. Do not expect him to last a long time (i would get a desensitizing lubridant or ointment for him or even a pill that makes him last longer, rock on and stiff nights work great for many people)The average a guy lasts 3 minutes the first time and the average girl takes 30 minutes to orgasm, so do not expect too much.
4. explore each others bodies, you don't know what makes each other or yourself tick yet so have fun testing each other.
5. Read up on the different things you want to try and research questions you have before the big night.
6. Do not drink too much at the wedding, alcohol can make you crash or not remember and you dont want that, you may think it will relax you but it can do the opposite and make you too chatty or tired.
7. Set the mood. Light candles, put out rose petals, get some chocolate body paints, buy some bubble's for the bath, explore some toys, buy some pheromone spray, and wear some sexy lingerie.
8. It is ok to be loud don't hold it in but DON'T fake it! If you are not honest and dot tell him what works and what doesn't he will do the wrong thing every time and you may never orgasm.
9. TURN OFF ALL ELECTRONICS! shut those phones OFF, no lap tops, no TV it is about the two of you! No interruptions! mood music is ok but the rest of it has to go!
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I love this site. Very informative. I like the fact that you say lubrication is the key and it really is. Just make sure not to use too much. Great site. Keep it up.
ReplyDeleteAw thank you i appreciate it! Also YES do not use too much that is also not good. and if you get the pink silicon lubricant a little goes a LONG way! Also try not putting it under a condom because they can slide off and get lost (if you know what i mean)
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