sexy photoshoot

surprise your lover with a sexy photo album! now with printers in almost every household we no longer have to be embarrassed taking intimate photos in or have them possibly confiscated. Use lingerie you already have or use it as an excuse to buy a new set. You can find a photographer who does these but they are usually a little pricey but you can do them yourself and save some money but it is nice to go into a studio and have someone tell you what looks good and has experience with shoots like this but make sure it is someone you are comfortable with or else it will show in the pictures.
Take one of your mans button up shirts so you can do a morning after shot.
Take some costumes along.
Have fun with it and dont be embarrassed he will love them and he will be the one looking at them!

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Music sets the mood.

Make a mood CD. It has been proven that music impacts our mood a LOT. For women, we a lot of times set ourselves up for failure in bed and if we start doing things purposefully to put ourselves in the mood then you will have it on your mind and that is half the battle. I dont know why but i LOVE nine inch nails, the lead singers voice automatically puts me in the mood so i listen to my itunes to that the days that i want to be in the mood for my hubby! What is your mood music?

Back Door

It is a subject that not many people discuss. Only 25% of people who have been asked out of over 3400 admitted to performing in ANY form of anal play, this included heterosexual and homosexual relations. only 6% to 8% of couples living together admitted to having anal sex at least once a month.  Believe it or not but some forms of anal stimulation can be beneficial for your health! Males using special adult toys that massage the prostate can promote prostate help and significantly lower your risk for prostate cancer. There are several versions of toys that help with this, the one the most people i have talked to have been pleased with is call the Aneros. The couples don't only say it is beneficial to their health but gives men a different kind of orgasm that they couldnt even explain. So if you are willing to explore this option men, from what many men have said after using this, you will be pleasantly surprised.  talk to you doctor and see if this is right for you. If you have any questions about this subject ask away!

Xs and Os Lingerie and Gift Boutique

I added a picture link to their online store at the bottom of my blog. If there is any product not on the site that you have seen they can order ANYTHING for you. Also there a hundreds more products in the store location than on the website. I believe in this store so much! They really focus on the couple and their needs and CARE about you! They are not just there to make a sale, they educate you on the products because they do not want you to be disappointed. It is so clean and light inside and it was the first adult shop that I did not feel dirty walking into.

Question I Have Been Asked.

Q. Where is my G-Spot and how do i know I have found it?
A. The answer slightly differs from woman to woman but it is about one and a half to two and a half inches into your vagina, behind your pubic bone. The best way to feel it is to put pressure on that spot which many achieve with a "come hither" motion with the fingers or with a G-Spot toy. If while you have done this or while you are having sex you have ever gotten that "oh my gosh i am going to pee" feeling you are hitting the right spot and dont worry the more you do it the less it will feel like a urination feeling, your brain has to adjust to what is going on and no you will not pee. Your body shuts down the ability to urinate while having sex.

Q.What is the Clitoris and where is it?
A. The Clitoris is located at the top of the vagina area and varies in size but is normally pea sized and covered by the "clitoral hood" The sole purpose of the clitoris is for pleasure. Most girls find it much easier to achieve a clitoral orgasm than a G-Spot orgasm which can be achieved by manual/gentle stimulation of the skin, tongue, or a vibrator.

Q.What are nipples supposed to look like?
A. Nipples come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. Some are inverted, or stand erect, and some women have one of each. Some are pink, brown, or even tan. The most important thing is if they start to change in appearance of become sore or have any discharge that isnt supposed to be there you need to go see your doctor.

Q.Are clitoral and penis pumps safe?
A.Yes, when used properly, not everyone is comfortable with using them and they are not a necessity but they can be used to enhance pleasure.

Go on a "vacation"

Even if you are just going to a hotel down the street it is good to break out of the norm and going somewhere new. Turn off your phones and make to room romantic, rose petals, candles, bubble bath, champagne. You could even break out the wedding dress and have a wedding night DO OVER! Have fun with it! I dont know about you but the wedding night isnt always what you build yourself up to hoping it is but you CAN make a new memory! Pretend you are far away and let people think you are out of town and keep that DO NOT DISTURB sign on your door :)

X's and O's Home Party (new info)

Ladies in the San Diego/LA area!!
Any occasion is a good one to have an X's and O's party! If you like to have fun and learn about many different adult products and feel them to see the difference! We also have tons of sexy lingerie! Also our number one product for military wives (Clone a Willie)

-Great prices!!!

-we have thousands of products that we do carry and we can order any product you wish to purchase

-We can come to you or you can come to out store location in Escondido for your party

-the hostess or the bride to be gets product worth 10% of the purchases made at the party.

-The hostess gets her choice of 10% off he purchase or a free pole aerobics class

-Anyone who makes a purchase of $100 dollars or more gets a free pole aerobics class

-If you make a purchase of $25 or more you receive a lifetime %15 off our products

-We ship for free (if we have to order outside of what we have)

If you have any questions or want to book your party let me know, you can either write me in the feed but you will get a faster response if you email me at Usanavictoria@yahoo.com