Something has been brought to my attention.

I was written by a reader about a subject that i believe a lot of women can relate to! MEN READ THIS!
When a woman says she is almost there, that means what you are doing is working. So when she says this keep doing the same thing. Do not change it up! When you do this she loses the momentum she had built up to the BIG O and this is very frustrating! dont go faster, dont go harder, just keep going!  UNLESS SHE ASKS YOU TO CHANGE IT OR DO IT A DIFFERENT WAY!
thank you
i do respond to you when you have a specific concern or want me to research something for you! also if you want to find the perfect item for your pleasure!

Try something new!

As married couples we tend to get in a rut and have a "sex routine." Blow his mind and try something new!
Like i said in the other post, put a vibrator against your cheek while giving him oral. Buy a new costume (or pull one out that has been sitting there for a while) having that mentality of "being the nurse" or any other person gives a lot of people the ability to try things they wouldnt have before just as themselves and almost an "excuse" to break out of the rut.
Try a new toy! go in together (or surprise your partner) with a new toy, whether it is a vibrating ring, a tongue vibe, the We Vibe (can be used DURING sex as a gspot and clitoral stimulator and feels great for both of you) check out my older posts to  get more info on that.
The biggest thing is make sex fun! It is not just a thing to get "over with." It was made for us!