Role Play

Role Playing is a fun way to keep you marriage fresh. I recently asked the girls on http://www.asailorsanchor.com/forums/index.php (a forum for navy wives) about new roll playing ideas. Here are some costumes that i have (some are not available right now) Some are pictures of me and some are models.  i love all of my costumes!

1.Dorothy
The Costume
http://xsandoslingerie.com/dorothygirl.aspx  

2.Gingerbread Girl
The costume is not available right now but will be available around the holidays and i will post the link when it is back out!

3.french maid
Costume
http://xsandoslingerie.com/charmingchambermaid.aspx

4.Nurse 
Costume
http://xsandoslingerie.com/nurse.aspx
I really want those shoes though! and i have fishnets with medical crosses on top instead of the white! Oh and the stethoscope actually works well!

5. Safari Girl (lion tamer) I would have posted a picture of me in it but i was pregnant and i was trick or treating with my son :)
The costume
http://xsandoslingerie.com/safarigirl.aspx
stockings

http://xsandoslingerie.com/9040lycraindustrialnetstockings.aspx

 

 

6.Sailor Girl 
Costume
you would have to call in (it is available) just ask for the sailor outfit Victoria Rocca wore, they know me well
(760)737-9469  the shop is called X's and O's Lingerie and Gift Boutique


7. I have your usual hooker/ stripper getup!
here are some items i have for this
corset/lingerie  - here are a few examples
http://xsandoslingerie.com/alluringset.aspx
http://xsandoslingerie.com/evacorset.aspxhttp://xsandoslingerie.com/butterflyjacquardcorset.aspx
http://xsandoslingerie.com/thedivaset.aspx
garter belts are always a nice touch for this look
http://xsandoslingerie.com/stretchlacegarterbelt.aspx
http://xsandoslingerie.com/stretchjacquardandembroiderygaterbelt.aspx
and stockings
http://xsandoslingerie.com/9014fencenetstockings.aspx
http://xsandoslingerie.com/9112fishnetthighhighswbackseam.aspx
http://xsandoslingerie.com/9040lycraindustrialnetstockings.aspx
Shoes
http://xsandoslingerie.com/601-brook.aspx
http://xsandoslingerie.com/609-nancieblackandpink.aspx

Mix and match and aspects of this one can be parts of other costumes you have! i make Halloween and holidays an excuse to buy a new outfit and my husband is very happy for that!

8. Raggedy Anne
 This was my first one i ever got! i love it but it is not on the website but they can order this one as well. i believe the stockings come with it! :)


I believe that is all of the costumes that i have right now! if you have any ideas! let me know! 

Get rid of the excuses

Get rid of the excuses. If you are married the times when you feel like saying no and making excuses those are the times when you as a couple need it! Sex is meant to be in your marriage take that time and it actually helps with the exact things you complain about. you will get better sleep, be more relaxed, and will bring you closer together emotionally and physically.
If you aren't feeling very close and that is why you don't want to do it! what gets you closer than exploring each others bodies! Do not be afraid to experiment an make it fun together, you will learn so much about each other. Also do not be scared to talk about your wants and needs in bed. communicate, 9 times out of 10 he wants to hear those things! Go to the shop together and pick out lingerie or a new toy.
GUYS girls want your opinions and want you to tell them what you want to see them in.
Have fun!
We are called to be one flesh and the missionary position is not the only one! As a Christian woman i want to be the best lover i can. Do research find different things to surprise him with.
for example- surprise him with some oral, but instead of the usual put a vibrator against your cheek! he wont know what hit him. try different lubes and toys! see what works for you! but remember it is not a replacement for him it is for you to use together!
dress up, bring a little role playing into the bedroom. you can make just about anything sexy. Be a Dr, a student, the teacher, a pirate, a zookeeper, just be out of the ordinary. :) i have a lot of costumes and love wearing them. it is easier for me to be more wild if i am not "me"
buy a new game! that way you don't have to come up with the ideas the game will tell you what to do. they are fun but make a deal that it is OK to skip things if uncomfortable.
try something new! it can be an all the time thing it doesn't have to be saved for a special occasion!
check out http://xsandoslingerie.com/ for some ideas and gifts! it is the shop i work for. we do home parties and you can just come in but you don't have to shop there i just want you to have a good relationship and get close and know it is OK!