What do you wish guys would do?

So one of the nights of the cruise, i posted prior to this one, We are separating the men and women, There will be several things for the ladies like chair dance class and a few other things we have not figured out yet, but for the guys we will be having some sort of group meet and we are trying to decided what it should be focusing on. Here are some examples we came up with, but what would you want your man to work on that would make you more willing to make love to him?
I have to say  we ALL want our men to pitch in more at home and give us the time to feel like sexy women...but would you like him to learn
1) relaxing massage, that would connect the two of you BEFORE hanky panky starts
2) Dress up, just like he wants us in Lingerie and set up a romantic seduction scene or
3) learn to talk to me in a romantic way that makes me want to be more sexual

(that doesn't imply he needs to wear lingerie.....just "PUT SOME EFFORT INTO IT!")

just ideas
if you have an other please write it in we are looking for anything you are wanting or women want in general

sexy photoshoot

surprise your lover with a sexy photo album! now with printers in almost every household we no longer have to be embarrassed taking intimate photos in or have them possibly confiscated. Use lingerie you already have or use it as an excuse to buy a new set. You can find a photographer who does these but they are usually a little pricey but you can do them yourself and save some money but it is nice to go into a studio and have someone tell you what looks good and has experience with shoots like this but make sure it is someone you are comfortable with or else it will show in the pictures.
Take one of your mans button up shirts so you can do a morning after shot.
Take some costumes along.
Have fun with it and dont be embarrassed he will love them and he will be the one looking at them!

Music sets the mood.

Make a mood CD. It has been proven that music impacts our mood a LOT. For women, we a lot of times set ourselves up for failure in bed and if we start doing things purposefully to put ourselves in the mood then you will have it on your mind and that is half the battle. I dont know why but i LOVE nine inch nails, the lead singers voice automatically puts me in the mood so i listen to my itunes to that the days that i want to be in the mood for my hubby! What is your mood music?

What is sexy?

Sexy is confidence! If you are not feeling confident do something to build it! give yourself the tools and knowledge to be that confident woman that is in each and every one of us. It may be deep down there but we all have a fire that burns and wants to be sexy. Go out of your comfort zone and push yourself to try new and exciting things!
some ideas
1.try a pole aerobics class
2.buy some costumes
3.try some new toys
4.go to a sex therepist
5.dress the part (try some tighter fitting clothes that are still classy, confidence is in knowing your own body and dressing in a way that is not overly sexed up but is showing just enough to keep you guessing.)
6.look into the other persons eyes when talking to them
7.good posture (this is a HUGE one, it shows that you have integrity and are comfortable in your environment)
These are just a few suggestions to make you feel more sexy! It is very important when having an amazing sex life! 

Sexy Shoes

http://xsandoslingerie.com/458-ballerina.aspx

Sexy Shoes make an outfit and these definitely are worthy for the eyes! I want these so bad! i am hoping the next holiday my husband will let me buy them! With a 4.5 " Metallic Heel and a short .25" Platform this Clear heel comes ready to compliment anything in your wardrobe with 7 Different Color Ribbons.
Ribbon Colors: Baby Pink, Gold, Purple, White, Baby Blue, Black & Red. They are only $49.99 which is a great price and this website gives you free shipping on orders of $100 or more. all of the links will be the same website.

http://xsandoslingerie.com/512-mimi.aspx

I think i want every single one of these. They are classy and i love the two toned colors and the lacing in the front. lovely 5 inch heel. These are a definite way to get his attention! Comes in four, two toned color options. Black with White, Black with Fuschia, Black with Red, White with Red, Pink with Black, Pink with White. These are only $39.99. 

http://xsandoslingerie.com/ph511-paige.aspx

These are perfectly my style. i love polka dots and ribbon they also have a hanging charm in the back which is super cute! These are $54.99 and worth every penny!

This stunning shoe comes in black with white polka dots and a red bow. This retro shoe has a 4.5 inch tall heel and is made out of microfiber satin.Colors: Black/Red/White. Also available in White/Black and Black/White/Pink by special order only. (Please call to special order.) Also call to order special sizes. They carry 6-10 but they make them in 5-12 and can order them for you.

http://xsandoslingerie.com/buttons.aspx

I LOVE THESE! I want both the white one and the black on the right. I have the ankle version of this shoe and LOVE it but there is nothing like knee high boots.  These beauties are only $69.99 and are gorgeous. I dont know why but buttons draw me in like the polka dots. 

 

http://xsandoslingerie.com/601-brook.aspx

These are your classic clear stripper heals which also come in a variety of colors http://xsandoslingerie.com/601-juliet.aspx. I have these and the are surprisingly comfortable. They have a 6" stiletto pointed heel with a 2" platform and are only $44.99.

http://xsandoslingerie.com/609-nancieblackandpink.aspx

 

These are a very cute alternative to the "stripper heals" which should be in every girls collection i have the classic clear heals but i think i am going to get one of these as well.  These of on sale for $39.99 right now which is a FANTASTIC price!

OH mi panty

This is number one on my wish list from my hubby. I will post the description because it does so much and i have not yet tried it.
http://xsandoslingerie.com/ohmipanty.aspx
OhMiPanty by OhMiBod is a wearable bullet with a velvety finish. It vibrates and pulses with the ambient sounds in any room - even to your lover's voice - giving you an extra thrill with every pulse. The discreet controller clips to your waistband. Have sexy fun wherever the two of you go. And the fun doesn’t end there! OhMiPanty also works with your iPod® iPhone™ or any mp3 player, has a manual mode allowing you to choose from seven vibrating patterns. OhMiPanty brings a whole new level of pleasure to your mood music, sexy silhouette dancing, or date night experience. No matter how you listen to your music, OhMiPanty will rock BOTH of your worlds. Choose from Ambient, Manual and Music Modes.
Specs: Bullet vibe measures 1 ½" long and ¾" in diameter. Controller measures 3" long, by 1 ½" wide and ¾" deep. Molded from premium grade hypoallergenic non-toxic, non-porous ABS plastic with PU coating for velvety finish. Phthalate free. Includes Bullet vibrator and controller, Black thong (OSFM - one size fits most), Splitter, Velvet privacy pouch, 2 AAA Batteries and a 1-year OhMiBod warranty.